While remembering her late husband with tears in her eyes, a few days after his death at the age of 67, due to a heart condition, the filmmaker, 52, mentioned his cheeky sense of humor and, sometimes, his vulgar jokes.
“I loved his heart and soul, his jokes were dirty, but his heart was so pure,” she recalled in tears during a memorial service at Riverside Memorial Chapel in New York on Thursday.
In memory: Gilbert Gottfried widow Dara Kravitz paid tribute to the legendary standup comic with a hilarious compliment that would make her husband proud. photo in 2017
He continued: “Our relationship was so special that whatever I say is not enough.”
Kravitz still remembers meeting her husband at a Grammys party in Tavern on the Green in 1997, when she was 27 and he was 42.
“I was there because I was in the music business and he was there for free food,” she said ironically, nodding at Gottfried’s reputation as cheap. “Some food fell from my plate and Gilbert picked it up and put it on his plate.”
Farewell: Gottfried rests at Riverside Memorial Chapel (photo)
Practical brothers: Gottfried’s longtime friend Jeff Ross (pictured) also offered some comic relief to those who mourned Gottfried, also mocking the actor’s financial habits.
The mother of two continued: “I thought it was a little strange, but I was always a little attracted to strange people. “He looked incredibly sweet and a little lost and I felt bad for him, so I was kind to him and then he asked for my phone number and the rest is history.”
Kravitz kept the crowd laughing as she remembered ordering a single rice pudding to share at the Moonstruck dinner.
“I thought it was a little strange,” he admitted. “Couldn’t he order two rice puddings?”
Goodbye: Gottfried dies at 67, his family announced on Twitter on Tuesday
“I do not know how to explain the uniqueness of our relationship,” he said. “I was young, extroverted and sociable. Gilbert was shy and introverted. We were opposite but like two pieces of a puzzle we fit perfectly together. (For) the next 10 frigging years we dated. “He would come every night and watch TV because I was actually paying for the cable.”
After ten years of dating, in 2007, she told her loved ones that she had finally persuaded Gottfried to sort out his fears or his marriage and fatherhood.
“He finally took the plunge and trusted me,” Kravitz said, adding that they finally tied the knot and welcomed their two children, Lily, 14, and Max, 12.
But before she could move into her apartment, she said, “Please try to get rid of some of your hotel soap.”
Longtime actor and comedian Gilbert Gottfried dies at 67 (photo in 1990)
“They filled an entire second bedroom of his apartment. He asked his sisters if they needed soap, they said, “Only big bars,” he recalled.
“So Gilbert who is Gilbert stayed up all night opening these little wrappers, passing the soaps under the water, mashing them together to make big bars,” Kravitz added.
Eventually, he said, he “gave his sisters a garbage bag full of custom-made soaps” that he “thought were so sweet” that he “could not help but love him”.
Gottfried’s longtime friend Jeff Ross also offered some comedic relief to those who mourned Gottfried, also mocking the actor’s financial habits.
Gottfried lent his voice to Aflac Insurance duck mascot. Photo in 2010
Speaking of his friend, the 56-year-old stand-up comedian said Gottfried “survived his wife and sister, two wonderful children and more than 12,000 small bottles of shampoo”.
“What a mitzvah. What a mission in life, what a purpose to have in this world. “And he was not just funny, he was hilarious,” Ross recalled.
He joked: “He was bold and provocative and subversive and so lovable that he could escape with the jokes about the skulls that made a dead man. “Isn’t it so funny now, Gilbert?”
Heartbreaking news: His family posted a personal, heartfelt message announcing that he had died of a “long-term illness”. Photo in 2014 in New York
Ross also said he praised Gottfried’s fearlessness and how he “made light of the world’s darkest secrets”.
“Gilbert got the pain out of our worst tragedies,” he joked before talking about how he “actually started canceling the culture when he was fired for playing duck.”
Ross also sweetly played a recording of them singing “Sunrise, Sunset” from the hit musical “Fiddler on the Roof” as he talked about his friend’s love for music.
While urging attendees to sing the first verse with him, many began to cry and “touch their tissues”, according to Page Six.
Alan Zweibel, Mario Cantone of Sex and the City, Dave Attell and Judy Gold also came to pay their respects.
He gave it his all: The star was also in the movie Problem Child in 1990 and The Aristocrats in 2005. Photo in 2016
With the announcement of his new death, the family of the late star asked his fans “please continue to laugh as loudly as possible in honor of Gilbert”.
Schwartz said Gottfried suffered from recurrent ventricular tachycardia, a form of heart failure due to type II myotonic dystrophy.
Gottfried is perhaps best known as the voice of Iago cartoon character in the 1992 film Aladdin. He was also behind Aflac Insurance duck mascot.